If you are someone who is really bad at flirting (a non-flirt), then this video is for you! Flirting is a highly desirable skill and you know if you have it. I remember watching girls flirt with guys and thinking How does she do that? I could never flirt like that! Now I realize that some people are born with flirting skills while others have to learn them on their own. Some never learn them and still find love.

No matter how many times you watch other people flirt it wont help you do it yourself. Flirting is intimidating, scary, and requires a lot of confidence. The best way to get better at it is to put yourself out there and practice. Trying different techniques to figure out which ones are for you is the best way to learn. I found 2 out of 3 of the tips in this video to be relatively easy techniques for even the non-flirt girls.

1. Compliment him. 2. Use his name a lot. Both techniques result in making the guy feel good. The more you can make him feel good, the more he will like you for it. Everyone wants to be around people who make them feel good about themselves. These are great techniques that can be used on the first date and throughout the relationship. They are also relatively safe and not so scary!

Her other technique is to give the man a massage. If you can do this, then you are already a good flirt! As a non-flirt myself, I can say that offering a massage is a pretty bold move! I would say that you should avoid even thinking about this technique to not give yourself anxiety! If you are a non-flirt or a beginner flirt. I encourage you to check out this video for some more reinforcement. Dr. Kirshner seems like a total nut but this is worth watching for the entertainment value alone.